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Stop Scheduling Your Anxiety

You’ve read me say it several times in these anxiety posts [https://www.cjchilvers.com/30-practical-tactics-to-decrease-your-anxiety-intro/]: you must schedule all these tactics. This stems from one of the most effective tactics I’ve ever used on my anxiety: using my calendar. I could write an entire course on this

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Exercise Your Brain

No this isn’t about brain teasers and it’s not about priests ridding you of demons. You can literally exercise a lot of your anxiety away by exercising your body. I did this twice in my life. The first time was in the 90s, when I first was diagnosed

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Go Outside

Taking a walk, especially in a forest [https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19568835], has been shown to reduce cortisol levels (a hormonal measure of stress) and depression. It’s no mistake that the human eye can discern more shades of green [https://www.cnn.com/2017/06/05/

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Create a Morning Pages Habit

This one is kind of related to journaling [https://www.cjchilvers.com/journal-for-whats-now/] , in that it clears your head of recurring thoughts (open loops) that often lead to increased anxiety. Every morning, set aside some time to start your day by writing in a stream-of-conscience way. No editing. No censoring.

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Journal for What’s Now

I started journaling in 2010 for all the wrong reasons. I did it mostly for legacy — so there'd be some record of my life after I'm gone. That wasn't a good reason. 1. No one will want to read it. 2. No one reads

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My Hero on Halloween

I’ve always had a hard time at parties. My social anxiety disorder would have me worrying for days before the party. When I got there, I’d put on a happy face and try to say all the right things. Then, I’d go home and collapse, exhausted from

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You Need to Sleep More

I don’t think there’s a single anxiety fix that will work if you don’t sleep enough. It’s foundational. It’s so important to your health, you should schedule it. I’m not kidding. My calendar has 8 hours earmarked for sleep. I get an annoying notification

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Be Alone Without Being Lonely

I believe solitude is critical for the mind. I try to work and think alone as often as I can (which isn’t often). Last year, my doctor told me that I needed some real solitude to reset myself – no family, no computer. He said, “Don’t let anyone talk

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Test Your DNA

Did you know your doctor could test your DNA to find out which psychiatric drugs might work best on your anxiety? Now you do. Next time you see your doctor ask about DNA testing for medications [https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2019/10/17/766473930/dna-tests-for-psychiatric-drugs-are-controversial-but-some-insurers-are-covering] . It’s still

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Meditate

Meditation has helped me more as an approach to reality than just an anxiety treatment. Oh, it can also work wonders on anxiety, but the scope of meditation is so much grander. But where to begin? It’s such a huge topic and to relay a practical tactic you could

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